Hi David,
I have reinstalled those drivers atleast 5 times at this point, and i never see the icon in the control setup. That is the main problem, i can however play my SL on instruments but the Automap function is not working. My Tiger update has arrived and sitting at home.
What i am going to do is - delete all the drivers and reference to Remote, install tiger - then do a fresh install of Remote SL - then repair the permissions.
If this does not fix the issue, i will get some screenshots and post them here so you have a visual.
Thx for all your help...i really like the keyboard but if by the weekend its not resolved it will most likely go back.